Chasing After The Worthless

June 11, 2012 — 38 Comments
Chasing After The Worthless | Joseph Lalonde
Boomerang Stuck In Beach Sand

Image by Paleontour

Have you ever thrown a boomerang? If you have, you probably know how difficult it can be to get it to return.

Most of the time it flies in the opposite direction you want it to. Never to return.

Sometimes you may be able to get it to hook and fly back to your hand. That’s probably very infrequent.

Your hope is that your throw will look something like this:


I recently purchased one of the Mantis boomerangs featured in the video above. My hopes were high that I would soon be throwing like these champs.

I was sadly mistaken.

On my first outing with the boomerang, I made a bad throw. The boomerang came out of my hand early. It flew fast and far. Then it started to rise higher and higher. Finally came the wicked hook into the 40 to 50 foot tall tree.

Knowing it was in the tree, I decided to make my attempt at retrieving the boomerang. I used what I had at hand, an old volleyball that our youth group used. I threw and threw that ball and couldn’t get the boomerang down.

Eventually our youth pastor came out and offered to help. He went and retrieved the ladder from the church. We propped it against the tree but that was of no use. It was too short.

With that failure, he attempted to throw the volleyball and knock down the boomerang. On one attempt the volleyball becomes lodged into the tree. Now we have two items stuck.

Next comes the rocks. We start chucking them into the tree trying to knock out the volleyball and the boomerang. No luck.

After an hour we had to admit defeat. We were not getting them down that night.

Think about our situation. We’re two grown men standing around a tree for over an hour. We’re putting ladders up, throwing volleyballs, and throwing rocks. All in an attempt to get down a $20 boomerang.

Can you imagine how ridiculous we looked? Pretty silly I bet!

But how often do we do this in our lives? We chase after the tasks that are not valuable.

It could be a business idea that’s going nowhere, a hobby that’s taking up too much time, or a friendship that has run it’s course.

Whatever it is, we’re putting too much effort into trying to keep it. The time and effort is more than the return we’ll ever see.

When it comes to these situations, we have to make a decision on whether or not it’s time to cut our losses. To walk away and leave it be.

The decision will be hard. You may not like what has to be done. But you have to make a decision.

Examine your life today. Look for any areas that you’re putting too much emphasis on and not getting a return. Make a decision on whether or not it’s something that you need to keep pursuing.

Maybe it’s not always trying to fix something broken. Maybe it’s about starting over and creating something better…

Question: Is it time you give up something so you can move onto better things? Please share your thoughts in the comment section below.

 


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  • http://deuceology.wordpress.com Larry Carter

    Love this. I think we all have things that we deem important that really keep us from what is truly important.

    • http://www.jmlalonde.com Joe Lalonde

      Glad you loved it Larry. How do you discover what you need to quit and move on to better things?

    • http://www.brandongilliland.com/ Brandon Gilliland

      True that!

  • http://joeandancy.com/ Joe Abraham

    Great thought and hilarious story, Joe! It will be good to take time periodically to make sure that what we do does give intended results. Positive Quitting isn’t a bad idea!

    • http://www.jmlalonde.com Joe Lalonde

      Thanks Joe. Thought you guys would enjoy hearing the story.

      Have you taken the step to incorporate a review process to see what’s working what’s not and what should be left behind?

  • http://tcavey.blogspot.com/ TCAvey

    Nice illustration! Very entertaining and makes a great point. Good job.

    • http://www.jmlalonde.com Joe Lalonde

      Thanks TC. What was your takeaway from the post?

      • http://tcavey.blogspot.com/ TCAvey

        Knowing when to cut our loses isn’t easy, we get emotionally attached. But if we stay focused on what God wants then it becomes easier. I must admit, I struggle with this at times. Sometimes it’s because I don’t want to hurt someone, but ultimately if I am serving Christ then if someone gets hurt it isn’t because of God, it’s because their focus isn’t right. My boss is Jesus…I have to keep telling myself that- especially since I am a people pleaser.

  • http://www.theanalogoustruth.wordpress.com/ Arny

    soooo did you get the boomerang? lol…
    oh and good word today Joe!
    Very encouraging…

    • http://www.jmlalonde.com Joe Lalonde

      You’ll have to wait and see Arny. There’s a new post in the works about it.

    • http://www.brandongilliland.com/ Brandon Gilliland

      I guess there’s a post on that! haha

      • http://www.jmlalonde.com Joe Lalonde

        There is Brandon. Should be out on the 20th. Hope you guys will enjoy it.

        • http://www.brandongilliland.com/ Brandon Gilliland

          Awesome!

  • http://undistractedchristian.com/ Tyler Hess

    ugh, boomerangs…those things are impossible! as for your question…I need some time to think about that one :)

    • http://www.jmlalonde.com Joe Lalonde

      Haha, they can be impossible but I bought two nice boomerangs that come back nicely. I remember having boomerangs as a kid growing up and thought I could never do it. But, with a nice quality boomerang, they return nicely.

      So, did you come up with an answer to the question?

      • http://undistractedchristian.com/ Tyler Hess

        ah, well you are a better man than me i reckon! when i was a kid i had one of those bounce back nets to throw a baseball into, way easier!

        Well I have a 4 day year old kid, she pretty much answered the question for me cus I just don’t have time for very much of anything besides making sure she’s okay haha :) so I guess the answer is I am giving up on that thing called “sleep”

        • http://www.jmlalonde.com Joe Lalonde

          I’m not sure that’s such a good thing to give up on. But I can understand how that happens with a young child. Bet it’s worth it though, right?

          • http://undistractedchristian.com/ Tyler Hess

            It isn’t something I plan on giving up forever, only as long as I have to :)

  • http://danblackonleadership.com/ Dan Black

    Dang tree, you should have recruited a youth to climb the tree to retrieve it.

    I think many business over ride a product or idea until it become ineffective or hurts the company. Just think about how Henry Ford did not want to change the color of the Model T. His unwillingness to change and adapt to customers wants hurt the company.

    Great post!!!

    • http://intentionaltoday.com/ Ngina Otiende

      Joe really liked the boomerang….I was expecting to see him try to go up the tree himself :) recruiting a youth sounds good :)

      • http://www.jmlalonde.com Joe Lalonde

        Thanks Ngina.

        I may be able to jump out of an airplane but when it comes to climbing trees, you can count me out!

    • http://www.jmlalonde.com Joe Lalonde

      Thought about it. But the boomerang got stuck after the youth were dismissed.

      You’re right. Too often a company doesn’t want to change when the time comes. How would you get around a slow moving company?

      • http://danblackonleadership.com/ Dan Black

        Nice. If you send a kid up their in the future, who knows what else you would find.

        I think it starts with the leadership team, who either allow for change or movement or stunt’s it. I’m not sure the exact question your asking:)

  • http://talesofwork.com/ kimanzi constable

    I’ve even had to give up on relationships that were going nowhere and dragging me with them, I totally get this post. It’s hard but has to be done!

    • http://www.jmlalonde.com Joe Lalonde

      Great example Kimanzi. Sometimes we pursue relationships that are not good for us.

  • http://sparkvoice.wordpress.com/ DS

    I must admit I was curious about the direction of your post, and love how you tied it back together. Thanks for the thoughts.

    There have absolutely been, and continue to be resource drainers that appear daily. I have to refocus on what my main goals are and whether or not what I’m doing will help achive those.

    • http://www.jmlalonde.com Joe Lalonde

      That was what I was hoping for. To intrigue and make you think what was going on.

  • http://jonstolpe.com/ Jon Stolpe

    I think this is an interesting question as it relates to social media. The social media can be a great place to extend our community and our platform, but it can also be the source of so much wasted time.

    • http://www.jmlalonde.com Joe Lalonde

      Good correlation that I hadn’t thought about. If we’re not careful it can quickly become a time suck.

  • http://www.brandongilliland.com/ Brandon Gilliland

    Great analogy! I have thrown a boomerang, and it is harder than what most people think. Awesome post!

    • http://www.jmlalonde.com Joe Lalonde

      Throwing one can be quite difficult. If you can get the hang of it, it becomes quite simple.

  • http://www.eileenknowles.com Eileen

    Love this analogy and the lesson learned. Thanks for the reminder to focus on the important.

    • http://www.jmlalonde.com Joe Lalonde

      You’re welcome Eileen.

  • http://www.liveitforward.com/ Kent Julian

    Excellent! Both the lesson being shared and the way you are sharing it.

    I’m in the midst of a challenging leadership issue and trying to decide whether to continue to stand my ground or move on. Too much to share here, but this blog is helping me process the decisions that are before me.

    Thanks!

    • http://www.jmlalonde.com Joe Lalonde

      I’ll be praying for you as you go through the decision process Kent.

      • http://www.liveitforward.com/ Kent Julian

        Thanks!

  • http://www.facebook.com/brian.dodd.39 Brian Dodd

    What a humbling post! I wonder how much of my life I have wasted chasing after worthless things. Thanks for helping us recallobrate.

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