We’re all trying to get somewhere or become something better.
We purchase programs that promise to make us a better person. We attend seminars that are supposed to improve our self-esteem. We watch videos that promise to show us the way.
What’s The Process?
The process is simple. The process is the journey we take from where we’re at to where we belong.
God has a plan for our lives. In the end, we should wind up there.
But we struggle and fight and resist the plans God has for us.
We think we KNOW where we’re headed so we push and pull and trip and fall and mess up.
We want our way in the process.
And when we want our way, we get lost. Read more...
Throughout our lives, we have multiple identities. We may be fathers, husbands, wives, sisters, brothers, leaders, businessmen, athletes, and the list goes on.
We have title after title. We have position after position. We have responsibility after responsibility.
The crazy thing is, we can get lost and easily forget who we are.
That’s one of the reasons why I loved watched the beginning of CBS’s CSI: Miami. The theme song for the show was The Who’s Who Are You song.
Who Are You is a catchy song that, at the beginning, simply asks Who are you? Who, who, who, who?
The question is pointed and it’s loaded.
Do you know who you are? Do I know who you are? Who are you?
There’s a good reason this resonates with me. It should resonate with you. Read more...
It happened again a few weeks ago. A Christian leader I follow on Twitter and whom I respect a lot, tweeted something quite unfriendly that was obviously meant as a direct message. He deleted it about a minute later, but the damage had been done already, at least with me. He wasn’t who I thought he was, because otherwise he would have never written something so ugly.
Having one consistent identity has always been a challenge for leaders. Everyone knows the stories of leaders who were easygoing and loved outside, but a complete nightmare to their families.
With the rise of social media, fining and maintaining that one identity has become even more of a challenge. Authentic leadership requires us to be the same person at home, at work, in the church and online. Including those instances where we think nobody is watching us. But how many of us really have one identity? Read more...
Failure is one thing we all face. It comes at us in our careers, our family, and our faith.
It pulls at us and tears us down. Telling us that we’re worthless now. That we won’t do anything of value.
Failure brings about lies and feelings of inadequacy.
But there’s one thing you can’t lose when you fail…
What Failure Tells Us
When we fail, we want to run and hide. To stick our heads in the sand like an ostrich. In all honesty, that makes us look silly.
Why do we want to do this?
Because failure lies to us. It says that we’ve screwed up beyond hope. We’re told that there’s no redeeming value in our lives.
The biggest lie failure tells us is that we’ve lost our identity. Read more...