Why You Need To Say No
As an ESFP-A on the Myers-Briggs personality test, I struggle with pleasing people.
I want to make people happy. I want to make sure everyone is having a good time.
In doing so, I have a hard time telling others no.
Having this personality type doesn’t mean I can’t learn how to say no. I can and I’ve been working on saying no.
If you’re like me, let’s look at the reasons we need to say no.
Why You Need To Say No
I’m a free spirit. I’ll go where the wind pushes me.
That also means I’ll often go where others want me to and not where I want to. This can get you, and me, into trouble.
That’s why we need to learn to say no. But how do we say no?