I far too often find myself shoulding. And I know I shouldn’t should myself.
You shouldn’t should yourself either. Shoulding yourself puts you in a bad spot.
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But what is shoulding? Shoulding is the act of saying “I should take care of my estimated taxes” or “I should spend more time with my wife. She really deserves my attention.”
Instead, we let those ideas be shoulds…
And our relationships suffer. Our businesses suffer. Our personal health suffers.
Shoulding is a form of procrastination. One you should put to rest.
When you start saying “I should…” stop yourself. You’re about to wreck yourself.
You can change your “I shoulds” to “I wills” or “I ams.” The way we use our phrases impacts the actions we take. Read more...
So many people talk. And talk. And talk…
We talk so much we forget there’s action to take.
Why We Talk
We talk because talking feels good. We get to express our desires and what we PLAN to do.
Just the action of speaking out our intentions gives us a sense of premature completion. Talking about what we’re going to do actually gives us the feeling we’ve done it!
Isn’t that crazy?
With that, you can see why we continue to talk about how we’re going to change the world. Or how we’re going to search for a new job. Or lead the organization in a new direction.
Get To Doing
While we should be talking about our goals, we can’t let our action stop at the talking. We’ve got to get to doing. Read more...