Everyone wants more time to spend with their wife, their children, or their friends. Work seems to get in the way of this quite often. Even more so, work tends to consume other parts of our lives.
Many people have their work-life balance out of whack. It’s one of the easiest things to do. Whether this is due to issues at home (an angry wife) or challenges at work, we tend to mess up one or the other.
The Tightrope Walk Of Work-Life Balance
For years, the work-life balance looked like:
- Office hours of 9-5
- No outside communication after office hours
- Paid vacation with little to no interruptions
Things have changed. The advent of the cell phone has made separating your home life from your work life incredibly difficult. Read more...
A control freak refers to a person who must be in control of all things and people. This is the micromanager who nitpicks about performance to such an extent workers are emotionally exhausted and anxious.
Photo by Alejandro Alvarez
But a control freak, in my mind, is a leader who practices self-regulation, who is the locus on control. Such a leader is the strong center in a cyclonic tornado of activity and conflict in the workplace. In fact, we look to our leaders to remain calm, rational and inspirational even in the most challenging circumstances.
I recently read an article about Mayor Giuliani whose passion for New York anchored the city in the middle of the 911 catastrophe in which terrorists destroyed the Twin Towers, killing thousands. His hands-on approach distinguished him as a legendary leader. He aided firefighters, attended to the injured and took to the airwaves to comfort and calm the city. Americans will never forget Rudy Giuliani. Read more...
Thursday night I had the pleasure of sitting down and having a conversation with Linda Hoenigsberg over Google Hangouts.
It was such a joy to discuss emotional intelligence and how we can learn to control our emotional state.
Watch the video below to see our emotional intelligence discussion.
What you’ll learn in the video:
How emotions effect the workplace and your ability to lead: Linda shares a shocking story on how a leader missed being aware of the emotional environment and what this did to her.
What you can do to calm the emotional environment in your workplace: Emotions can run wild within an organization. People are interacting with one another and signals can get crossed. Learn what you can do to calm the emotional storms when they arise. Read more...