Life could be so much easier… If only people came with warning labels.
You may be thinking “Yes! That’d be awesome. I could easily see the toxic people in my life.” or “I could recognize the people who will cause me trouble.”
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But those aren’t the warning labels I’m talking about. I wish people came with warning labels like:
If Only People Came With Warning Labels
I need help.
This warning label would let me know this person is struggling with a problem and needs help. He’s open to receiving help and won’t get mad if I step up to offer a few wise words like Yoda.
This would also let me know they’re looking for help and may strike out because of the pain their problem is causing them. Their warning label crying out for help allows me to brace myself for any attack I may face when I’m interacting with them. Read more...
A week into my training for the Grand Rapids Marathon I’m running to raise money to help children in Africa have access to clean water (you can help by going HERE and donating any amount you’re able to), I was on the sideline. I couldn’t run.
It’s not that I didn’t want to run. I did… Oh, did I ever. So did Lok.
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For some odd reason, my body craves to be on the road. My feet pounding the pavement. My shoes putting on the miles.
But when I switched from my Brooks Ravenna 8s (I sadly can no longer run in my barefoot shoes) to the Brooks Ravenna 9s, something happened. The shoes had undergone a big enough change between models that my running style was impacted. Not only that, my legs and feet began to ache. Read more...
Becoming a disciplined leader takes hard work. You can see that through the previous articles in The Disciplined Leaders series.
You have to work hard to become disciplined. But the payoff is well worth the effort.
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Something amazing happens when you become a disciplined leader. You become a leader worth following.
The disciplined leader has shown he is worthy to be followed. Because he can follow.
There’s also another reason you want to become a disciplined leader. As you become disciplined, you learn truths. You discover things about yourself you never knew before.
Why You Want To Become A Disciplined Leader
You begin to discover:
1. You don’t have to listen to your feelings
Your feelings can get you into trouble if you listen to them and give in to every whim you have. Your feelings will tell you that you’re hurt or angry or can’t go on. Those feelings are a lie. Read more...
Healthy leaders are disciplined leaders. They know they have to take their thoughts captive and break their will. To be truly disciplined is to be broken but whole.
At first glance, this doesn’t make sense. How can someone be broken yet whole?
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The healthy and disciplined leader realizes he’s already broken. In this brokenness, he can be whole if he allows himself to be.
Through the brokenness, the healthy leader realizes he must become more disciplined. By bringing his mind, heart, soul, and body to discipline, he is able to begin to mend the brokenness of his humanity.
The Disciplines Of A Healthy Leader
While you may know you’re broken, you may not know what disciplines you need to undertake to begin the healing process. These disciplines will break you more but they will also heal you faster than you could imagine. Read more...