Just the mere mention of a meeting makes me cringe. Crazy thoughts run through my mind. And probably yours.
Meetings tend to be long-winded, only mildly on-topic, and rarely need you in the meeting the whole time. Yet here you sit.
That’s why it’s time for us to rethink whether or not it’s the right call to hold an in-person meeting.
Meetings Are Good
They really are. They have a purpose.
Finding that purpose is the challenge.
Meetings are great when you need face-time with someone.
Meetings are great when you need to quickly hash out the details of a big project
Meetings are great when you’ve got all the information handy
But meetings often fail to meet these tests. They begin to delve into random topics and people don’t get a resolute answer. Read more...
Have you ever been in this situation? There’s been a meeting schedule. Everyone is on-time except for the person who has scheduled the meeting? Or your friends have invited you out for dinner. Only they show up half an hour later with no explanation given.
How does that make you feel?
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Frustrated. Upset. Abused. Uncared for.
Emotions like these course through my body when others are late. I’m sure they do for you as well. It’s only natural.
But what if you’re the person who always runs late? Do you know that people view you in a negative light?
They may think:
- You don’t care about the people you made plans for
- You’re egotistical
- You can’t be trusted
- You are unreliable
Being late lands crushing blows to your reputation. Friends will fade away. Business deals could be lost. Relationships are strained. Read more...