Social media is a great tool, one that I love dearly. Who doesn’t, right?
It’s great to be able to catch up with old high school friends on Facebook. It’s great to see the constant flow of information on Twitter. It’s even great to see all of the amazing pictures people share on Pinterest.
While there’s a good side to social media, there’s also a dark side many people get caught up in.
The Dark Side Of Social Media
By using social media in the wrong way, you can begin to destroy your influence. Amazingly, many people forget that social media is a very public form of communication.
Your employers can see what you post on social media. Your employees can see what you post on social media. Your friends and family can see what you post on social media. Read more...
Our good friend John Maxwell has always said that leadership is influence. I firmly believe that.
Leading requires us to have a certain amount of influence on others. Yet we’ve also mistaken what influence truly is.
What Influence Isn’t
Influence isn’t getting others to do what you want them to do.
Influence isn’t controlling others.
Influence isn’t forcing people to do your will.
Influence isn’t manipulating others.
Influence isn’t showing off.
Influence isn’t a Klout score
Influence isn’t is the number of followers you have.
There are so many things that leadership is but the above isn’t true influence.
What Influence Is
Influence is impacting lives.
Influence is making a difference in the lives of others.
Influence is showing how much you care.
Influence is taking the time to do something nice for another person. Read more...
The most powerful leaders have an advantage over other leaders. These leaders know influence is power. And they know how to grow their influence.
The tactics these powerful leaders use aren’t very difficult to master. In fact, the steps to grow your influence are very simple.
I think anyone who’s been leading for any time has heard the classic John Maxwell quote:
Leadership is influence
Maxwell broke down leadership and put it into the simplest terms possible.
So why do so many leaders eschew the principle that leadership is influence? Rather, there’s many leaders who go for the leadership is power viewpoint. These leaders try to lead with an iron fist.
Leading this way often backfires and you see these power-hungry leaders quickly fade away. Read more...
By now, everyone has heard of Facebook and Twitter. Possibly Google+, Pinterest, and LinkedIn.
They’re all forms of social media. And, as a leader, YOU need to be on at least one of them.
Pat Flynn, over at Smart Passive Income, has a saying:
The mantra of Be Everywhere has been the key to Pat Flynn’s success as he built a passive income empire. Along the way, he also created a rabid following who hangs on every word he says.
His strategy works. But it’s overwhelming to the beginner.
When you begin to think of updating Facebook, Twitter, Google+. Pinterest, LinkedIn, and who knows what new social media network comes out next, you can easily feel overwhelmed. I mean, you’ve got to BE EVERYWHERE! Right?
Wrong… Read more...
If you’ve ever watched or read the story of Sleeping Beauty, you know who Maleficent is. Maybe not by name but by her character. Maleficent, as portrayed in the original Sleeping Beauty tale, is the evil fairy who puts a curse on the baby Aurora.
You know the curse. It’s the one that promises when Aurora turns 16 she’s going to prick her finger on a spinning wheel and fall into a deep sleep.
Upon hearing about the new Disney movie Maleficent, to be completely honest, there was no real interest on my part to see the movie. Yet my wife wanted, so badly, to see Maleficent. (She’s a big Sleeping Beauty fan. So much so, our dog’s middle name is Phillip after the prince who kisses Sleeping Beauty)