Conflicts arise in every relationship. Whether it’s conflict with your spouse, conflict with a friend, or conflict with a team member.
Anger will arise. You’ll want to air your frustrations. You’ll want to kill the relationships.
Instead, I encourage you to deal with the conflict. Learn how to handle conflicts as they come at you.
In most instances, you’ll be able to reconcile and resolve the conflict. This is the ideal solution.
We want conflicts handled quickly and nicely.
If you do is up to you. Let’s first look at:
What Not To Do
Often when we’re faced with conflict, our minds begin to race. Anger can begin to seep in.
Resentment. Hatred. Hurt. Distrust.
These are some of the feelings you’ll probably feel.
What you don’t want to do is focus on these emotions. They’re deadly and will destroy your ability to lead effectively.